I never expected coaching to be easy. There have definitely been some rewarding moments so far. Part of a win, talking with the guys, working things out among the coaches, and being home alot top the list. There are a few things that I have trouble with as a coach, though. Lately, they have really been tough to deal with. First, wanting to be on the ice, but I knew I would experience these feelings throughout the year. Then there is the subject of guys "sitting out", the worst part of hockey or any sport, for that matter. The healthy scratch, as it is known is when a player does not play in a game, but not because dressing because he or she is injured. There are extra players on most teams and not everyone can dress. As a player, the worst words from the coach are, "You're not in tonight." I learned as a player you can deal with the situation in two ways. Oneway is to get angry, sulk about, feel like the coach is trying to screw you. It leads to nothing good and just alot of negative thoughts. Of course, everyone goes through it, and it is only natural to feel this way at first. It is the competitive nature coming out. The other approach is to try and deal with the situation in a positive manner. Maybe talk to the coach, get his thoughts, have a good workout and then support the guys. I've had the upmost respect with players who can take these disappointments and turn them into a positive. One point in my career while I was playing for Chicago, I went through a stretch of games sitting out. It was tough but I was with another player who had a great attitude everyday and helped me deal with the day to day stuff. One day, after practice, the Hall of Famer Paul Coffey, talked to me for a while and told me not to get down. His advice was to work hard everyday and things would work out. He told me, "The cream always rises to the top." It wasn't long before I was traded to Montreal, and enjoyed 3 of the best years of my career. I played 8 seasons after that and many of those were the best years of playing and the best teams. It's ironic how things work out. I can certainly lend that advice to these young guys. As a coach, though it is much different. I really like all the guys and watching them experience this part of the game is one of the most difficult parts of coaching so far. At least I don't have to tell them, and I know it kills Kevin having to make the decision. If I ever become a head coach, this will be the part I will not enjoy...Former Maine Mariner great Steve Tsujiura stopped by the office the other day to say HI. He was one of my favorite players during that era, and there is not a nicer man around... I've found out that even coaches feel the wrath of disgruntled fans... This will be my first election as a Mainer and loving the feel of winter upon us... Well, this is my "day off" although that means working to get the house in order. Moving is a long process. This move will keep us put for awhile... Enjoy the warm weather today, Weino

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